Adoption, Now What? ADOPTION NOW’s Post-Placement Coaching

As an adoptive parent, you’ve been through quite a journey. The paperwork, the waiting, the emotional rollercoaster – it’s all led to this beautiful moment of bringing your child home. But as any parent will tell you, the real adventure is just beginning. 

That’s where we at ADOPTION NOW come in with our post-placement coaching. Let us be your guide on this incredible journey. We’ve been in your shoes, and wish we’d had someone to support us when things got tough.

What is ADOPTION NOW’s Post-Placement Coaching?

Picture this: You’ve got your precious little one home, and suddenly you’re faced with a million questions you never even thought to ask. That’s totally normal! Our post-placement coaching is like having a seasoned friend by your side. We’ve been there, we’ve lived it, and now we’re here to support you.

Our coaching consists of four focused sessions where you’ll work directly with us. We’re not just here to give advice – we’re here to walk alongside you as you navigate the unique challenges and joys of adoptive parenting.

The Value of Our Personalized Roadmap

Here’s the thing – coaching isn’t just for families facing major challenges. Sometimes it’s the everyday situations that need a fresh perspective. For instance, maybe your child is struggling with separation at daycare, or perhaps they’re having trouble giving up a comfort item. These might seem like small issues, but they can feel overwhelming when you’re in the midst of them.

We help you create a personalized roadmap that addresses your specific situation, whether it’s:

• Everyday transitions and milestones
• Attachment and bonding
• Comfort items and security objects
• Separation anxiety
• Sibling dynamics in adoptive families

Imagine sitting down with us and hearing, “Okay, based on what we know, here are the things you might want to keep an eye on, and here’s where you can start to get help if you need it.” It’s like having a GPS for your parenting journey – and we’re right there in the passenger seat with you.

Why Our Coaching is So Beneficial

• Targeted Support: Instead of throwing darts in the dark, we give you targeted advice on what to look out for and how to address potential issues early on.
• Resource Navigation: The world of post-adoption services can be overwhelming. We’ll help you identify exactly what services your child might benefit from, whether it’s medical, therapeutic, or educational support.
• Understanding Attachment: Attachment is a big deal in adoption. We’ll help you understand the nuances of bonding with your child and fostering secure attachment.
• Proactive Approach: By addressing potential challenges early, we’re setting your family up for success and potentially avoiding more significant issues down the road.
• Confidence Boost: Knowledge is power. We’ll help you understand your child’s needs and have a plan to meet them, significantly boosting your confidence as a parent. We’ll also give you a list of resources and a referral list for specialists.

Real-Life Impact

Here are some real examples of how coaching can help:

We worked with a family whose son was healthy, well-attached, and generally easy-going. However, he struggled with separation anxiety at age three and four, making it difficult to leave him at Sunday school or the gym daycare. He also had a strong attachment to a sippy cup that was becoming a concern. Through coaching, we helped the parents understand these behaviors from an attachment perspective and provided practical strategies to work through these challenges.

Another family came to us dealing with more complex issues involving RAD (Reactive Attachment Disorder) and substance exposure. Through our coaching sessions, we connected them with specialists and developed specific strategies for their unique situation.

The key takeaway? Coaching can be valuable whether you’re dealing with everyday challenges or more complex situations. Sometimes you might just need a few sessions to work through a specific issue, while other times you might benefit from more comprehensive support.

We’re Here for You

Adoption is a beautiful journey, but like any adventure, it can come with its share of unexpected twists and turns. Our post-placement coaching at ADOPTION NOW helps you navigate those turns with confidence and grace.

Remember, seeking support isn’t a sign of weakness – it’s a sign of strength and commitment to your child. It’s about giving your family the best possible start in your life together.

So, if you’re in the post-placement phase, we strongly encourage you to reach out to us at ADOPTION NOW for post-placement coaching. It’s an investment in your family’s future that pays dividends in love, understanding, and joy. We’ve been where you are, and we’re here to help.